Blood drawn, breath held

We've made it to week 12, and I had a thorough check-up with my doctor this week. My bump is finally starting to show a little bit—though I can't tell if it's from the baby or just all the extra eating! I'm carrying on with work and normal life, but I'm already really looking forward to the summer. It feels so good knowing a little one is joining our family.

During the visit, I also had blood drawn for detailed genetic screening tests. It's a mix of a relief (knowing we can catch anything early) and a massive source of anxiety. My doctor told me to stick with my vitamins and strictly emphasized getting enough protein from things like lentils and meat, and making sure I include an egg every morning. The blood test results will be out in a week or two, and since it's a detailed panel, they can also see the gender. The doctor explicitly asked if we wanted to know, and we said yes—mostly because we want to start preparing our daughter for the idea as early as possible. It looks like it's going to be a very long couple of weeks of waiting.

Following our second pregnancy, one week at a time 🤍